feeling shy????? its ok

[lolitta]

hello folks


its ok 2 b shy & sometimes its good!! but u cant let i t take over ur life ....(lol i shoud say that 2 my self)
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if u r tierd of being shy & so sick of being in the back of the crowd ... u want to be out going
person& get over ur shyness??? i have all the steps u need........u dont have 2 b shy nemore

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tip num 1

first u must know that being shy is a result of ur feelings abt ur self ....so the first thing to do is to work on ur self image....& if u didnt u will feel less than & ur not ....thats wat i think


b confident &focus on ur gr8 qualities ...dont let ppl drag u down....u cant make every one in the world likes u so why bother trying??!! right



intelligence is always more important than ur weight!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ( yeah right lolz
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try 2 wear something flattering 2 show wat a fun person u really r !! thats a good 1



lough often at ur own jokes (( its odd i know)) it will help ease any tension u may b feelin



..k i like this 1


lie on ur bed & take 3 deep breath .....then visualize a situation where u might b shy &try 2 make ur self confident in that situation .......do this daily





make a list of things that make u feel shy & work on them




well thats it guys .....if ur shy like i am u have alot!! to work on ........ i hope u like it ppl peace

lolitta :002: :002: :002:

[شفقانة]

Hi lolitta
nice topic girl!

you know wut's goin' on on ma mind??

k... let me tell u!
i guess there is nothin' wrong about being shy!
it's even much better than being hardy!
specially 4 girls of course!

one more thing!

the steps u mentioned above r 4 the unconfident people!!

but wut a great topic ya 3asal:71:

keep it up!

[lolitta]

[QUOTE=شفقانة]

اهلين شفقانه منوره البوست يا عسل .



i guess there is nothin' wrong about being shy!
it's even much better than being hardy!
specially 4 girls of course!



yes sugar i agree but i was talkin` abt another kind of shyness... i know its good 2 b shy sumtimes& i said that but sum ppl can b really really shy i mean really shy !!!.....& they cant act normally around ppl .... u c i dont think thats good 4 them ... sumtimes u can grow out of being shy & sumtimes only counseling can help !!! ( i mean when u r reeeeeeally shy ) but if u r not thats gr8

:71: :71:

the steps u mentioned above r 4 the unconfident people!!


yes l know & as i mentioned u need 2 have confidence 2 get rid of shyness

did u get my point yet ???

thanx sweety 4 the nice reply :signthankspin:


peace out :58:

[شفقانة]

Allooooha!!

thanx 4 explaining your point ya 3asal!
o i do agree with u about the problem of being too shy!
it's a really difficult setuation when you have to deal with your community!

:71:

:58:

[bomba]

heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey
first of all let me introduce maself
i'm new here.. n this is ma first replay :je_t_aime:
i really like this topic...n you know what i
had this problem before but now it's gone
howcome????!!!
i don't know
but i think that friendship was one of the thingz that really helped me to pass this problem
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thanx for listenin':dkb:
bye bye
see ya in next edition

[lolitta]

Allooooha!!

thanx 4 explaining your point ya 3asal!
o i do agree with u about the problem of being too shy!
it's a really difficult setuation when you have to deal with your community!

:71:

:58:

good we r in the same page then :71: :71:


cya

[lolitta]

:welcomeani:
heeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeey
first of all let me introduce maself
i'm new here..

hey bomba ur welcome ....im lolitta n if u need nething lemme know :welcomeani:



n this is ma first replay :je_t_aime:
i really like this topic...

ooooooohhhhh thats so sweet of u .......this is ur first replay ?? lucky me!!!

n you know what i
had this problem before but now it's gone


me 2 i have a terrible time in class when i have 2 do my speech n i hardly talk but im getting better


i think that friendship was one of the thingz that really helped me to pass this problem

yeah i agree .....the best thing 2 do is 2 get more involved n being with good friends can really help alot .........so good luck


thanx guyz 4 the replayz keep it up


bye
:welcomeani:

[" wing man "]

lollita....firstable....i think its very sweet being a shy girl...i think being a shy girl make u more beautiful...but...u know...this works in some situations...in other situations..u must remove your shyness and take your step.......................

in other hand...i think ..shyness sucks with guys...

about the speach and all that stuff...this is my problem which i struggle from it until now...

so...i think my steps will work with me...

thank u ..and hoping i have not a big mouth and a big nose...

peace

[7ANKOOSHA]

hay people
i was passing by and thought to drop this !!
i am never a shy person i , i can always stand for my self .. i know what make me BLUSH and i take it with a smile
i feel that shyness make me weaker , as i have to cover it up , but to say the truth i have nothing to feel shy about
so i guess the topic is very usfull for those how feel it
but for me i stand with my head high and always looking in the eye

love
7ankoosha

[bomba]

here I am ... replain again
by the way WING MAN ..... 'bout da speach
i remember the first speach for me
when i got up on da stage there was a huge crowd
i got shocked ... did't know what to do i even forgot what to say ..... for a while i thought that i'm done
but i said heeeeeeeey kid wait a min. what am i afraid of , ain't gonna say something wrong , they ain't gonna lough .... so i started sayin ma wordz ....... n you know what ... this thing made me confide im me more than i was :yir:
n 'bout shyness makes you feel weaker 7nkosha
i agree with you
so many times you need to be strong to pass da stuation you're in .
that's it ...:signbestwishes:

[lolitta]

lollita....firstable....i think its very sweet being a shy girl...i think being a shy girl make u more beautiful...but...u know...this works in some situations...in other situations..u must remove your shyness and take your step.......................


i couldnt a gree more thats exactly what im trying to say





in other hand...i think ..shyness sucks with guys...

abt being a shy guy .....mmmmm well i dont know if it sucks but what i know 4 sure ....being too shy is a prob 4 both guyz and gurlz when it has gr8 impact in ur life

about the speach and all that stuff...this is my problem which i struggle from it until now...


trust me im worse

thank u ..and hoping i have not a big mouth and a big nose...


not at all ....thanx 4 the replay im so glad to hear ur voice bye bye:rolleyes:
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[lolitta]

hay people
i was passing by and thought to drop this !!
i am never a shy person i , i can always stand for my self .. i know what make me BLUSH and i take it with a smile
i feel that shyness make me weaker , as i have to cover it up , but to say the truth i have nothing to feel shy about
so i guess the topic is very usfull for those how feel it
but for me i stand with my head high and always looking in the eye

love
7ankoosha


hey u its nice 2 c u



awesome im so happy 4 u ....u have a gr8 confidence n thats wat i like abt u


but u know wat my shyness is not from feeling self conscious cuz i do have confidence .....i dont know wats wrong with me just looking to that sea of young faces really scare`s the hell out of me .....i hope its just a phase and maybe i`ll grow out of it ....hopefully


:signbestwishes: thanx 7ankOoOosha

[lolitta]

here I am ... replain again
by the way WING MAN ..... 'bout da speach
i remember the first speach for me
when i got up on da stage there was a huge crowd
i got shocked ... did't know what to do i even forgot what to say ..... for a while i thought that i'm done
but i said heeeeeeeey kid wait a min. what am i afraid of , ain't gonna say something wrong , they ain't gonna lough .... so i started sayin ma wordz ....... n you know what ... this thing made me confide im me more than i was :yir:
n 'bout shyness makes you feel weaker 7nkosha
i agree with you
so many times you need to be strong to pass da stuation you're in .
that's it ...:signbestwishes:


woOoOow .......cOoOol

i like ur positive attitude
i guess i`ll try that .....may be i need to get my self motivated .....ty bomba :71:




thanx ppl 4 dropping by
:signbestwishes: byeeeeee